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HER:Lesbian&Queer LGBTQ Dating App Complaints & User Negative Comments 2024
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✓ Badly designed and difficult to useThis app has so much potential but has such a terrible design. There is no way to delete/get rid of likes (without paying for premium) even when the people do not interest you. I understand apps need to make money but when the free version is so bad why would anyone want to give their money for the paid version?! Having such an open ‘about me section’ means that nobody fills it out so people just have photos and no information about themselves. Visually it is unappealing, just the colour scheme and layout of everything is very ‘high school project’ and not at all an appealing app..Version: 6.14.12
✓ Suggestions and FlawsI like the app, but there are some things I wish were different as well as problems that are extremely annoying. Suggestions: - Make the messages more clear. As of right now in your inbox the preview of your messages are either grey or black. Grey for read, black for unread. At a quick glance it makes it hard to figure out if you have a new message. I think it was easier before when there was a circle to represent a new message. - Add a small bio section for our profiles, it gives us more to work off of when looking through people’s profiles. - Also for adding events on our profile, let us search and add past events that we’ve gone to and forgot to add or for the new members who don’t find this feature. - Make adding events to our profile easier. Fixes: - Every time I upload a new pic to my profile, the order of my pictures gets jumbled up. This also happens if I change the location of one photo. And when you put them back in order you think you have but it’s only in order to you, not to anyone looking at your profile. This is extremely annoying because some pics are older than others or you simply want people to see certain pics before others - I can’t find a feedback button anywhere. Usually apps have that. HER has asked for feedback once but I was busy. Then later I have time and can’t find anywhere that I could send feedback (which is why I’m resorting to this platform)..Version: 5.48
✓ Better in the pastThis app was great when it first launched, unfortunately as with many of the dating apps that have been monetized to the gills unfortunately most of the features cannot be fully used unless you pay a fairly exorbitant subscription fee, and therefore it can be quite difficult to find what you may be looking for. They do at least allow you to see some potential matches and others who have liked your profile, which is more than one can say for other such apps..Version: 6.12.10
✓ So much potential, but falls shortFirst, I like this app’s premise and UI overall. However, it is so buggy now that it’s become almost unusable. The developers keep updating it claiming “bug fixes” but I still have to delete and reinstall the app almost daily in order for it to detect my correct location. I live in MN and it almost always thinks I’m in KS, when I’ve never been there in my life. It’ll say matches are <10 miles away, but then I talk to them and find out they’re a thousand miles away. So I delete, reinstall the app, and then it works fine for a while, but after a few hours have passed, I’ll go back in and I’m matching with people from across the country. It’s a real bummer because I used to find some cool girls on here but now I can’t find anyone in my area because of a glitch. You can’t manually change your location unless you pay either, so I’m wondering if this bug is being kept just to get more people to buy premium. Shady.Version: 5.45
✓ Dumber and dumberThis app literally gets dumber and dumber. The fact that I have my age preference set to a certain limit and “HER” completely ignores it. I have it set for 30+ and they show me people 20, 24, and etc. The app is called “HER” yet it’s full of men, real men and trans men. The fact is that their are men on an app for women. Dumb. I literally just got on the app scrolled through eight people that “liked” me and the app told me that was enough for today😂😂, 8 people. The developers move like they are going through bankruptcy, like they’re broke. They are so desperate for money. Would not recommend this app. App is also getting full of Bisexuals and their partners looking for unicorns. Bisexuals and their man, again on an app for lesbians. 🙄 I wonder if a man is actually running this app since the app is so intrusive and filled with men who think that lesbians want to date them. Lol @ the response 😘. No response to ignoring age limits. No response to why you try force men on lesbians. No response to charging more and getting less. No response to why your site is turning into a unicorn site. Lol. I’m very much aware that the app isn’t for me hence my review lol. Why even call the app “HER”, it’s misleading lol. Good luck to you all..Version: 6.16.9
✓ This app is homophobicKind of lame that you have to pay for everything. Attempting to take money from the queer community to view likes and acquire more swipes is ridiculous. You’re better off on one of the competitor apps..Version: 6.20.8
✓ Money or nothingWow. Ask lotsa personal questions/data, and end up with …. Zip…. Unless u pay. Hopeless greed. Also, tons and tons of complaints….and sill this app lists, like a predator..Version: 6.19.17
✓ Reports do NOTHING.I was actively sought out multiple times by a woman who came on far too strongly for my liking. Eventually I had to leave the app because she was allowed to make multiple near identical accounts. This went on for three months before I left. I reported her at least 7 times..Version: 6.12.2
✓ GarbageWay too many gross older men for a lesbian dating app. Seeing a guy twice my age “liked” my profile even though it specifically says I’m only looking for women made me want to projective vomit. Disgusting..Version: 6.14.20
✓ I was generous with my patienceBad interface, bad searchability, zero profile content. How vapid is it to match with someone cause you like their face? CAUSE THAT'S ALL YOU GET. There's no incentive to write who you are, what you're looking for. Assuming you mutually match, you gotta waste your time fishing that out yourself. Total trash. Oh and they nag you to pay for "premium" relentlessly. I'd leave no stars if I could. Used the app for months; it's useless & pointless. I had all of 1 mutual match, and she turned out completely psycho; I was afraid to meet her irl. All I wanna know now is how to delete my profile. Your interface is such garbage, I can't even find that option..Version: 5.5.3
✓ Great until it wasn’tThis app was fun until I randomly suddenly got suspended for alleged “suspicious activity”. When I emailed as per the FAQ to challenge the suspension I was told to prove my identity via email. I did what they asked for, via a scan of my ID and a photo of me holding a sign, with no solution since for 2 months despite repeated emails and Instagram DMs reassuring me that they would un-suspend it. Not sure what would be the point of them holding on to sensitive data for nothing and booting me off with no explanation. Disappointed. Update: I managed to sign back in and was blocked again, only to be told simply by the staff that my account was deleted with no reason. I wouldn’t bother.Version: 6.18.0
✓ HerSince the app is named "her" I supposed there were only women using it, but guess I made a mistake.Version: 6.20.8
✓ Some things better, some things worseThis is the third time I have used this app over a number of years and can see that work has gone into improving certain aspects of the site (namely inclusivity for all) however, whilst this and the social areas of the site have been given the much needed update, the actual browse and match side of the site has deteriorated terribly. (Unless you pay that is) Every time I have downloaded there have been less free features available and there are fewer still now. You are given a set amount of views of your likes and a set amount of swipes per day. Not great if you have a type. Because you can’t filter for free either…. At this rate it’ll take me a year just to find one person I like and she’ll be married by then 🤣.Version: 6.15.8
✓ Homophobic lesbophobic appThis app has insulted lesbians and they cater to males. And if a lesbian isn’t interested in obvious males, they’ll suspend your account and call you a terf as if this isn’t a lesbian dating app 🙄.Version: 6.18.0
✓ Okay app, idea is great but execution is questionableI like the idea of an inclusive LGBTQIA+ dating/social app to make new friends and find potential partners. The app has a lot of features that give users options to meet people in many different ways. But you have to pay for over half of it. Limited swipes until you are cut off and told to wait 24 hours to browse again (unless you purchase Premium or Gold). Same applies to deleting likes (many of which are bots or fake profiles). Adjusting settings pertaining to changing cities, viewing people you’ve liked’s posts, and going back to a previous profile you may have accidentally skipped SHOULD be free, but ofc it’s not. This concept often results in users having no choice but to purchase Premium or Gold, and many reviews I’ve seen says it gives no option to cancel the subscription. Seems like this company doesn’t actually put users’ needs as a priority and just want money..Version: 6.15.3
✓ Would give no stars if I couldApp recommends verifying profile - did this still waiting to hear I've been verified it's been days Can't browse because I can't see any profiles paid for a subscription so feel I am being ripped off to pay more for a platinum subscription to access profiles. Reached out through her support (which is really clunky and seems designed to put you off) to get this sorted - one unhelpful email in 24 hours, no response to my immediate reply to the unhelpful email. I guess they dole out one reply a day. Paid money for this poor app and even poorer customer service. If things improve I may change my rating but based on last few days that's unlikely to happen. Updated review still waiting for a response from the support team, still can't see any profiles so far many dollars spent for nothing this is a complete rip-off..Version: 6.18.0
✓ It’s changed a lotHER is one of the more customizable apps within the dating scene—with questions and communities and badges. It allows one to really dig into their own character and get an insight of others before making a decision on whether or not to swipe. It also is one of the only dating apps I’ve experienced that prompts for questions when no one has made a move. However, things have changed from the first time I got the app to now. I’ve deleted it and redownloaded it on multiple occasions, and before you were able to get a preview on people who liked you in your activities with no subscription—so long as it was in the beginning of the list. You didn’t have a limited amount of swipes per day, let alone likes, and premium costs were cheaper. Now it feels as if it’s making things harder to use unless you have the money to dish out $25 a month. The limitations make it very undesirable, with the customizations just barely doing enough to balance it out. I just wish it was easier to use without emptying your bank account, like it used to be when I first got it a year ago. Has a lot of potential but is becoming a cash grab..Version: 6.16.10
✓ A decent option... but not authentically gay/bi.The app permits biological males to use it which detracts from the purpose of bisexual and lesbian women finding partners. In a world where it’s hard to find like minded women HER is a good option, otherwise..Version: 5.76.10
✓ CIS white man allowed, queer POC isn’tMy friend is a CIS male, not genderqueer at all and he uses this app just fine. I’ve had my account suspended for ‘suspicious activity’ when there was nothing wrongful I did. I tried several times to prove my identity and restore my account but received no help. A genderqueer POC like myself has to prove my gender, but a cis white male can use the app with no issues? This experience has been very disheartening..Version: 6.14.0
✓ Cant give it a 0 so will have to give it a 1Literally just applying for an account gets me suspended (and i have to use another means of identification to apply and ive run out) and i havent violated any guidelines. literally what is this.Version: 6.15.0
✓ Really easy to accidentally like peopleI’m fairly new to the app and I keep wanting to scroll down on peoples photos to view their profile, which results in accidentally liking them instead. Because of course you have to tap on the bottom of the photo before you can scroll. It’s super awkward when you accidentally like someone since, as far as I can tell, you can’t take back the like. I’m aware this is a user error issue but I recommend, from a UX perceptive, adding some functionality to retract your like (maybe within a given time window e.g. within 10mins). Alternatively maybe an adjustment to the swipe functionality is needed so you have to swipe horizontally to perform a like / reject, rather than allowing diagonal swipes. Also another feature that would be great is to be able to see a list of profiles you have liked. Other than that it’s pretty decent if you pay for the premium features..Version: 6.17.6
✓ Still not workingThis app is an amazing app the only problem is for people with VoiceOver which is a screen reader on Apple products it’s not allowing us to read the app fully please can you fix this so everyone can have an amazing experience. And is it possible for you to allow the free members to access read receipts and who is online as I don’t believe it is fair for the people that can’t pay to not be able to see whether the message has been read or not.Version: 6.12.13
✓ Free part of the app non existent it seemsI’ve just downloaded the app to try out HER and after many of tries cannot seem to access any part of the free parts of the App. So far people have been able to like me, but I’m not able to see who liked me and I am not able to browse to see who is online or see who local my area without being prompted to subscribe to the gold or platinum package. Quite disappointed with the fact that it seems you are not able to interact, like or “swipe” if you don’t have access to the app unless they want you to subscribe for I think is quite expensive. Not impressed by Her😒.Version: 6.14.20
✓ So yeahI was having a good time meeting people and then surprise surprise, a scammer!! It tried to made me give her my card number and other stuff. It made me all anxious and uncomfortable. You really have to improve your verification and security in the app..Version: 6.18.6
✓ Needs lots of workThey need to make this app focused on REAL people... there’s too many unverified people and you don’t know who’s real and who isn’t... There’s also NO interesting people in my area.. There’s too many people looking for a unicorn.. There are lots of people in relationships using this app... I don’t understand why they’re here if they looking for 3 somes... even if you report them, their profiles are still there. I reported someone twice and I believe all they did was block them from my end.. there’s no known bugs, but I believe the subscription is dumb too... I believed that I was getting the best subscription when I purchased platinum, but I needed gold to see the others who purchased subscriptions... that’s dumb... why not make it one subscription??? That way you’re not wasting our money... with the platinum all I could do was see my likes... I couldn’t update my location or search specifically like that... I couldn’t look at the people who were “in the spotlight “ and I also couldn’t click on the people who were interested in me.. so this app needs a lot of work... its far from perfect... I also believe they need a specific button (after verifying) that someone is a black user where we can choose whether we want to date interracially... they assume for us and it’s hard to weed out the bot profiles... in all, I feel like this app was a huge waste of my time... I didn’t meet ANYONE in the 2 months that I was on this app.....Version: 6.10.16
✓ It has potentialI’ve just joined this app. I quite like the profile tags and the space to describe exactly who you are and what you’re looking for. However, I’ve noticed the app shows your profile to EVERYONE, including those outside your parameters (e.g. age and distance), and you’re only allowed to view 10 of your likes per day..Version: 6.14.18
✓ Good intentions-mediocre resultsI was constantly logged out and my account deleted, so I reluctantly agreed to logging in via Facebook. Everything was fine for a month or two and then with a recent update everything has gone sour. I was logged out yet again and made to sign in via Facebook. Every time I unticked app access to my Facebook information I was brought right back to the sign in screen, then after repeating this process and trying the mobile number sign in option, a pop up said I had been banned for violating community guidelines. For reasons I have literally no idea. Some issues with the app features itself are the inability to unmatch with someone (blocking is the only option) and the constant recycling of profiles that had already been swiped left on literally a hundred times. This app could be so much more, it’s really one of a kind but these issues really need to be sorted out. I am so disappointed..Version: 6.1.3
✓ Post modernismSeems to have forgotten their demographic.Version: 5.43
✓ Seriously?I was thinking of deleting the app for a while now since there are so many glitches and fake accounts, and the final straw was making it that you can’t have woman or even cis woman as your gender. Seriously? You say you’re being more inclusive but you’re excluding people!.Version: 6.1.6
✓ Not bad but...There seem to be some great profiles on the app and I like that there is an option to make friends in addition to dating. However, for an app that is supposed to be woman-centric, there sure are a lot of men on it. This would be ok if you didn’t have to pay for a premium membership just to filter them out and only see women. Weird that basic filters are considered “premium”..Version: 6.11.17
✓ I want to give this app a better review butI’ve been on her for over a year. Not that I’ve been looking for that long, I just went over to tinder and date a dude for 6 months. (I’m bi and genderqueer and poly) What I like: I love that it is inclusive of polyamorous, kinky, and BIPOC folks. I like the little questions on the profiles. What I think is breaking the app: Her sends me notifications about things I could not care less about and there is no way to change the settings. I don’t want a notification every time I get a like. I don’t want to know about special events. I just want to know when someone on the app messages me. No one responds, like almost no one. When I used this app last year I had several lovely conversations that led to one or two dates with one person. This year almost no one responds. I message everyone I match with and usually nothing. I think this could in part be connected to the issue I listed above. Unfortunately, as cute as this app is, it doesn’t work and I have already moved on to tinder again. I would rate higher, but if the app doesn’t work, it doesn’t matter how the features function. I gave back a star after seeing the responses to the reefs giving one star, trans women ARE women..Version: 6.15.6
✓ Good concept bad executionLet’s face it, there are a lot less LBGQT people in a given area than the heterosexuals. So After about 2 days I was “swiping” through the same faces I’d already seen, and I live in a major city. They constantly ask for you to upgrade but why would I do that when I’ve seen all there is to see? The app, like I’m sure all “dating” apps, is littered with a lot fake profiles. Pictures of beautiful women that anyone would like, but there only one or two pictures obviously looking to scam so poor innocent person. The profile set-up and editing processes also need an overhaul. If you’re going to allow “cards” to have text on them, once they are posted, you should be able to edit the card. You should also be able to move around the photo order and rotate your profile picture from the photos you have already uploaded. The “news feeds” do not have many participants which make them less than desirable to engage with. So while I'm sure a match made in heaven is possible with this app, and I applaud the concept, I really do, but I have decided to delete my data..Version: 5.68
✓ Could be betterThe app needs to give more swipe accessibility and less waiting time between when you run out of swipes. The app could be much better with giving more access to users..Version: 6.5.10
✓ No dates, just marketing noiseYet another queer dating app that promises a safe space for trans women while only delivering advertising for premium services and dead ends. Immediate uninstall. Worse than POF, and that is saying something when it comes to UX..Version: 5.60
✓ SosFirst, I want to address a conflict I am having. I accepted the temporary 7 day free trial and it said I would automatically be charged after the 7 days... anyway it’s been passed that and I want to cancel my subscription. I’ve tried looking for the “cancel subscription” EVERYWHERE but see it NO WHERE. ?????? I’ve tried following the steps given to cancel but nothing.. I haven’t cancelled anything so I’m worried I’m still going to be charged and I just don’t want this app anymore. PLEASE HELP — leading to my review, this app was great at the beginning. It was something new and fun but then I started getting bored of it. The people I tried talking to were cool for a second but NO ONE has ever wanted to actually meet up or anything. The closest I got to meeting someone was with ONE person who I ended up not meeting. I feel like I get more luck with tinder than I do Her, and that’s heartbreaking because I had high hopes of being in a “my” community. Overall, it’s fun at first but it’s at the point where I’m wasting my time looking at my phone instead of looking at people in front of me..Version: 5.37
✓ Homophobic appHomophobic app that shames and bans homosexual women. I refuse to support them anymore..Version: 6.18.0
✓ Lots of Scammers, Never Shown People Within My RadiusThis is the second time I’ve downloaded it now and the app is full of ‘sugar mommies’. Different pictures and profiles sending the same generic message. I live in the UK and I’m getting US ‘sugar mommies’ liking me and talking everything in dollars. Then I’m getting people from the Philippines like me when I have my radius set to 25 miles, what on earth is that about? I can’t penalise the app for not getting matches or people talking people because that’s just people not interested and is an external factor. I do like the inclusivity of the app and there are a lot of people that use it, just haven’t found my Little Miss Right yet..Version: 6.15.17
✓ GlitchyApp barely works. And they show your profile to people outside your range which is kind of uncalled for and a breach of privacy.Version: 5.67
✓ Terrible with matchingSeeing the same matches that you have already said no to.. really damn annoying. Wish this app was better..Version: 5.72
✓ Lots of couples, fake profiles, scammersI wanted to love this app, it says is for queer people, however many profiles are fake, lots of cis men ( I don’t understand why they aren’t at a straight app, there are so many other apps for them!) and couples. Again, nothing wrong of you are straight and want to do whatever, but not at the expense of the LGBTQ community. We suffered enough discrimination and violence we don’t need more at our safe space. we just don’t want to be dehumanized again by straight couples looking for somebody to spice up their marriage and be discarded afterwards, we are not prostitute or sex dolls, or a cis man who insists you are only lesbian because you didn’t have sex with him. Come on now! We think we come to a safe place only to be dehumanized and harassed. Oh and God forbid you say something to the couple or the cis man harassing you, the app will delete you for bullying even if you are a paying customer. I feel very oppressed where I need to just shut up and smile at cis man. Is this how you want to run an app for members of the LGBTQ community?.Version: 6.11.11
✓ If i could give it 0 stars, i would.Almost every single person on this app is a male, barely any queer women. if you want to see and match with actual females, unfortunately tinder is a better option. this no longer serves lesbians.Version: 6.20.7
✓ DisappointingAlthough the app is great and I love the concept of being able to meet people in your area, having to pay for literally everything is super frustrating. I know not everything is free but to only be able to see three likes id a little bit ridiculous. I joined her after a break up, looking for some friends and maybe a partner and I’m just overall frustrated and it’s only been five hours of having it. I’m a college student I don’t have the money to pay $15 a month talk to people. And I know if I don’t like it I can go somewhere else that is free but it would just be nice to at least see people who are liking me and be able to talk to them. I’d like to add they’re also not really clear how the app works. you can’t remove likes to see new likes. I got four and then it kicked off the fourth person that had also friend requested me. I am not sure how to get those back maybe tech-support can help but overall I’m just disappointed and frustrated with this app..Version: 6.13.5
✓ Déçue :(Je trouve le concept extraordinaire mais je suis déçue du service. Je n’ai accès qu’à 5 likes par jour et ce malgré que je suis premium. Je n’arrive pas à avoir du soutien à ce niveau depuis plusieurs semaines. Je trouve l’application beaucoup trop chère pour ce qu’elle propose….Version: 6.19.20
✓ Careful of dodgy subscriptionI signed up for an end of year one month free trial. I set an alert in my phone. Two weeks later I have been charged a premium rate, and I cannot unsubscribe through the App store… all options are only to increase my subscription. The trial says one week on my apple store purchases which is rubbish and one of the reasons I continue to not trust these dating apps when it come to trials..Version: 6.14.12
✓ HERApp is pre straight forward but adds here and there. Can’t see likes unless you match with someone. A lot of improvement maybe so people don’t have to pay just to talk to other people.Version: 6.17.9
✓ DisappointedI’ve avoided dating apps. I haven’t found one that I like. My friend told me about HER. So I joined and paid for membership. You only get a limited amounts of left hand swipes then you have to wait 24hrs. Or you need to upgrade your subscription. I thought HER was just for Women only but you will also find men. I have cancelled my subscription and will make the most of it until it expires. Good luck.Version: 6.10.10
✓ Suspended my account for no reasonThe UX is fine. However, I don’t understand why they can suspend someone’s account without a valid reason and no warning before suspension. I mean what is abnormal operating?! I just swipe the profiles! They don’t even provide an efficient way to recover your account. I thought the app aiming to help users building relationship with someone, but clearly it failed. It can ruin your connections easily and you can never contact your friend on the app again. I would never recommend this app to anyone. It shows how vulnerable we are. You can lost someone suddenly and never have a chance to rebuild the connection..Version: 6.12.0
✓ My goshThis app is frustrating. The only way to get a somewhat okay use from it is to pay for features. But you shouldn’t have to pay to find connections with people, pay to find love. It’s madness. You’ll mostly be liked by very old people or very young people, very rarely someone in your age range will like your profile, even then, it’ll come up with the option to pay to see who liked you. Which, again, is frustrating and it’s off putting. The price for it is bizarre too, I pay less for streaming services. I’d much rather watch movies than pay to see people 30+ years older liking my profile..Version: 6.16.19
✓ Account DeletedMy account was deleted multiple times for IDK what reason. The first time I hadn’t used it in a while so I was like ok that’s fair, The second time I suspect I was reported because there are soo many scams on this app and I was just messing around with these scammers that one got mad and got my account deleted, and the third time I was suspended idk if it has to do with the verification method and I just took a picture the verification picture so I guess me with make up on and my hair done looks 100 percent different then me bare faced and ready to go to bed. This app is just weird on so many level like if it was that easy for my account to be suspended or deleted how come there are so many sugar mama scams on the app? I was literally on the app for like 30 minutes if that. On top of the when sugar mama scammer get there account deleted I get multiple notifications from the same exact person, they literally come back with the same name and pictures. Anyway apart from that the app is ok. I met some cool people on there..Version: 6.10.3
✓ Took my moneyI downloaded the App. They suspended my account , when I sent then an email to explained to them that my profile is not breaking any rules, they said I was right and that my account is now reopened. Tried several times, emailed them again, they havent be able to fix it. Asked them for my money and said have to contact app support. I shouldn’t be the one doing all this when the problem is with the application. Not worth a penny..Version: 6.8.2
✓ Controls your optionsWhoever designed this must be a control freak. If you don’t “like” someone within a few “X” swipes the screen shows you someone who did like you and then instructs you to press the heart to get a match with them. If you don’t press the heart then the screen freezes and the only way to get around it is to stop using the app and come back to it later. Don’t tell me who I have to like thanks. Take a tip from tinder and allow me my own choices..Version: 5.48
✓ PriceyPlease lower the premium prices, they’re pretty wild lol. Like the app though..Version: 6.14.12
✓ Too many fake ‘likes’The app is simple and easy to use, but way too focused on trying to get you to subscribe. I can understand withholding the more premium features for those who pay the money, but I draw the line at being sent fake likes just to keep me “interested” in the app. Every day I’d get likes from several women who had maybe one picture and no profile information. After a couple times returning the like and sending a message (which of course there was no reply), I realized something was up. If these were scammers or catfish, I would think I’d get a reply. So I did some interest research and I discovered that some dating sites/apps will send people random likes from fake profiles just to give the user the little endorphin hit you get when you get like. They are trying to keep you hooked and entice you to pay for the subscription. I suspect some of the likes I got were from other users too; saw a few that were clearly trying to scam. I was very happy to see the app removed their profile quickly, so that’s a plus. I was also please with the ability of the app to delete all of my data and remove my profile when I decided I was tired of getting likes form so many fake people. I can only assume that my data was really deleted, but I suspect they will just end up saving my pictures to use in their fake profiles..Version: 6.10.23
✓ Bit buggy but lots of usersHeaps of users and people are genuinely nice. The app is a bit buggy though, messages lag and send really late sometimes in the wrong order. When you open a chat it goes blank but if you refresh the messages appear. Other than that, works well!.Version: 6.14.0
✓ ScamLots of fake people on this app using random pictures.Version: 5.71
✓ It’s works...barelyPositives first. I’ve met my girlfriend of 4 years on this app. So I will always been thankful for that. The app is a great space to meet other queer people, and if you are in a big enough city, you may find someone you connect with. Now the negatives...the people aren’t the biggest issue, it’s the UI of the app itself. 1. I have notifications on, but I can’t clear my notifications tab on the app. I have over 100 likes that have accumulated over the years, and no way to delete them. 2.Please clear out the fake scammer profiles. 3. You should be able to put in a set location, not use GPS. When I go out of town, I still want to see people from my City. And I don’t want to match with people who are only in my area for a a trip, then leave to go home. 4. This app needs better engagement. I will match with a girl, and they won’t respond for a week, becuase they forgot to check back. 5. My profile shouldn’t be shown to people outside my preferences. I keep getting likes from very young people. When my preferences are ages 25+..Version: 6.10.23
✓ Have to pay to make any connectionsThe only thing free about the app is being able to download it. To actually interact with anyone requires payment..Version: 6.18.0
✓ I really wanted to like this appFirst of all I’ve probably downloaded this app and deleted so many times forgetting each time why I deleted it in the first place. Which shows you I really wanted to like this app. I really did!! But the fact that I will be swiping and run out of “swipes” and it won’t let me swipe for 14 hours unless I upgrade to premium is just bonkers. I get running out of swipes it happens all the time to me on bumble and tinder. But to have to wait 14 hours is just ridiculous. Also it constantly notifies me when someone likes me but when I go to look at my likes it tries to make me pay for premium again!! I get needing to make money but I’d rather have ads pop up and have some certain exclusive features like swiping back have to be paid for then pretty much everything. Also I know with tinder and bumble it only notifies you if you both like eachother I’m constantly getting likes and other notifications pop up on my phone with no way of turning the notifications off on this app and I don’t need my phone blowing up all day. I feel this app needs a bit of a facelift maybe take some tips from tinder bumble and hinge cause I happen to love how hinge has a ton of info without being crazy like ok Cupid which seems like it’s never ending questions. I wish I liked this app but there’s just so much wrong with it. 😕.Version: 5.76.4
✓ Good but too pushy for PremiumIt’s an ok app but a lot of the features that are kind of important, like ‘gender identity’, are locked behind premium which means you’re going to see a lot of people you aren’t interested in. I would consider premium but it’s way too expensive for me and there aren’t many users in my area. It also has pushy/blatantly false notifications saying your profile is really popular etc. so go premium but you can literally see how many people have liked you and know that’s not true..Version: 6.13.0
✓ Mmmmmmm?My second time around on HER and there have been some improvements since last time - seem to be more profile in here than before . Would be good to have some sort of indication of when someone was last logged in so you knew if they were still active. Alway have to check location as the gps leave something to be desired - sometimes say someone is 25 miles away and then you find out it’s more like 80 !! But all in all it’s been ok - looking forward to giving the premium a bit of a go to see what other option there are Cheers.Version: 5.76.15
✓ Can’t sign inNot able to sign in since update yesterday. Information is correct but won’t budge. Fix this please!!!.Version: 6.5.16
✓ Sheesh! Where do I even begin…It’s unfortunate that this is the number one lesbian/bisexual app out there considering the fact that it began circa 2014 and has become a breeding ground for regressive lesbian dating, it’s super buggy, not to mention completely exploitative in terms of membership pricing, and is full of scammers/fake profiles — it seriously baffles me. When I first used this app circa 2015 I was able to connect with women all over the world, even in Australia and now we’re being confined to finding “love,” at most, about 300 miles away — unless you pay an unreasonable amount. Pfft. This app was incredibly special to lesbian dating back in the day bc it felt more like a safe space for lesbians to not be hit on by couples, but that’s over now bc it’s riddled with couples preying on lesbians. It’s become another app based on “liking” everyone and it kind of just ends there bc no one wants to pay to see more than 4 likes per day, and the only way around that is to practically “friend” everyone on the app in order to talk. — there’s so many improvements that need to be made… However, congratulations to those that have been lucky enough to find their person using the app..Version: 6.16.5
✓ Improvements NeededDownloaded the other day and I’m already noticing a few issues with the experience. Firstly, although the dating app scene is crowded these days, HER still has an opportunity to lead the way for the LGBTQ scene if it focuses on how people actually date and want to find people etc so that they’d be willing to pay. The reality is though, the experience without a sub is pretty poor so why would I? But seriously, could you BE anymore expensive? 1 - The name still really confuses me as it’s not exactly inclusive to the FULL market it’s targeting? 2 - I will suddenly get an in-app notification saying someone likes me and it pushes me to tap the notification icon. However, once in there - I can’t do anything BUT like the profile? I can’t exit, I can’t view their profile - it forces me to like as I’m blocked in. I have to shut the app down and when I return to my notifications, that profile isn’t there. However; moments later, it suddenly appears again - blocking me from doing anything. 3 - Why can’t I edit a text block in my profile? I have to delete it or write a new one. 4 - I find the grid design within a profile very basic and the fact that if someone writes a long paragraph of text, it’s not ideal to scroll within a image/light box view - too many different interaction types (swipe left/right, scroll up/down etc). This is my 2/3 day review but I’m sure I will have more feedback as I *potentially* continue using without subscribing..Version: 5.63
✓ Beware Paying for this AppI was kicked off and banned from HER right after I payed for the membership and was awaiting my account to be verified. They banned me saying I didn’t have a face photo but I did. Why else would I be trying to verify. I waited two months to join again. I didn’t pay until I was verified and guess what same photo I had used previously was my main picture. After I was verified I went ahead and payed for my membership. Guess what a week later in the middle of the night I was banned from my account saying I violated a rule or a terms of agreement. If you don’t agree go to the FAQ…that send you to other links that just give a ton of reasons you can get apparently banned and if you are a straight lesbian you better be open to a Trans man with a penis because if not you will get banned for not being open to the Trans Community. You cannot have preferences on this app because well if you read the rules you are not being all inclusive of the community. Good luck on this app that bans you with no explanation and keeps your money..Version: 6.15.14
✓ Could not even open appThe app requires you use your Facebook or instagram. I only use Facebook and it pulled an error message without a chance to log onto my account. Disappointing..Version: 5.69
✓ YikesThe app itself is awful and 20-30% of users are actually men possibly more..Version: 6.18.0
✓ Incredibly glitchy. So much potential.I really enjoy this app - it seems lots of queer folks have heard of it and are using it. I've meet some cool people through it. That being said, the user experience is lacking. Firstly, the app refreshes and loads slowly. Sometimes it will take the app several refreshes before it displays accurate information on matches, new messages, the order of messages in a chat thread, etc. There is little control over the types of notifications you can receive. I can't toggle if I want notifications for new matches or new messages only, versus friend requests or other features. I wish I could give this app a higher score, but it is pretty frustrating to use and it has not improved over time. At this point, I'd be unlikely to recommend this app to a friend. It's not user friendly in its current state, and I have not seen improvements in the last year or so..Version: 6.15.1
✓ Do better!There are way too many profiles without actual pictures of the person, too many couples looking for a threesome, and too many cishet men. It’s also hard to take a genuine pause from the app because sometimes I need a break and don’t want my profile still being seen by others, but how do I ensure others can’t see me anymore? Log out? Delete account? And deleting your account is a minefield. There are legitimate safety concerns for queer women, where we’re already hypersexualized by men and we’re leaving up identifying details up on our page (first name, pictures, age, etc.) that these individuals could potentially try to find out exactly who we are. The last straw was when was a biological male, identifying as two spirit, very very masculine presenting, he/him pronouns, and considered himself straight was a MODERATOR in my area! What?! This is an app for women (cisgender and transgender) and non-binary people. Although stating they are two spirit, this did not feel appropriate at all. As a lesbian woman, I just want a safe place away from predatory men and couples, where I can find that right person for myself. I’m so severely disappointed with this app. Not that other apps are really any better for us queer women, but I expected something more from an app called HER..Version: 6.12.2
✓ Banned while creating an account. TWICE.I can’t even give a proper review because I could even get past creating my account! I tried creating an account twice, once with Apple ID and once with Facebook, and both times I was banned before even selecting a profile picture! The reason for the ban was ‘Suspicious Activity’, although I’m not sure how creating a profile constitutes as that. When looking at the FAQ’s, HER states accounts are permanently banned and won’t be reinstated unless evidence can be produced to state otherwise, which I’m not sure what evidence they want because I was banned for creating an account and cant even get back in. I’m sure the app is great but can’t even make an account to get in.Version: 6.14.11
✓ My Rating/Review Could ChangeUPDATE: As you can see below, the developer asked me to email them my info. But the website says duplicate tickets slow down response time. And I clearly stated that I had already submitted a ticket. So what do I do? Also, I noted that many reviews here are negative because they were banned for seemingly no reason & the support tickets were ignored. I hope my support ticket isn’t ignored, but I’m concerned, given that it seems my review wasn’t thoroughly read. ———————— I was partway through creating my account when I was told I was suspended for suspicious activity. How could I violate the rules if I haven’t started using the app yet? I submitted a ticket with a screenshot of the suspension pop-up notice (which shows where I was in the profile-creation process. I’ve read several reviews that say they’ve had similar issues: blocked for seemingly no reason and support tickets ignored. Should my situation prove to go differently & I can actually try this app, I will review the actual usability & merits of the app. But blocked for suspicious activity while trying to create a profile or being unable actually to use an app even once would rank 0/5 stars. Unfortunately, I have to give HER one unearned star..Version: 6.15.15
✓ Way Too Many ScammersI really wanted to like this app because there aren’t enough lesbian apps to begin with. But there are some major flaws with this app. For one, there are more fake profiles then there are real people on this app, all made by scammers literally claiming to be 1)sugar momma & want to spoil you so reach out to them to work this out(will probably do so in one LONG message) 2)an army brat, watch out their birthday is coming up & they might just want a present because they can’t get off base to get it themselves or 3) a cool chick that just wants to tell you about Bitcoin & how awesome it is! Everyone is using it, didn’t you know!?!? I’ve met a few girls off this app but I’ve definitely met more scams and it’s gotten to a point in where this app just isn’t reliable at all. Oh and one more thing, I get there being trans people on this app, no hate there, but why are there men still also popping up to date women. I thought the app was called Her so she could meet Her. It’s a real big let down, this app. You’re better off lookin else where. It’s free but it’s also a waste of your time..Version: 6.10.10
✓ They dont do enough of…They dont do enough of screening profiles. This is a space for lgbtq but the company allows cis-gender men on here who are not under the trans or binary umbrella. Instead these men label themselves non binary and say nothing in their profile or show any pics to prove they are non binary but the profile bio and pics prove str8 as a pencil cis- man. When you are lgbtq you know when u are interacting with people under the rainbow. It is a vibe you get whether they are out or not. But if u want someone who is giving vibes like they are clueless to the rainbow then this is a great spot to meet that person. Too many catfish profiles, fake profiles, and fake sugar momma profiles. This app has really gone down hill in 2 years. They dont allow you to filter searches well for free. Its only distance and age you can filter through for free when it should be more. The app gets so dead that many people dont even check their messages or update their profiles in months. You might as well be on tinder..Version: 6.15.6
✓ I want to believe in this appFinding an app that caters to a bisexual woman is hard, HER is one of the few apps that are legitimate. I have deleted it several times after telling myself I don’t need a relationship right away, but I always find myself re-downloading it in hopes of getting lucky this time around; the app itself is appealing enough to return to. Dating is hard, this app gives me hope as I’ve actually talked to some pretty amazing women. However, the lack of things you can do without premium is more or less disappointing. You can swipe and chat, but that’s about it. There’s a stunning woman who liked me, but without the premium, I can’t view her profile and I’ve run out of swipes just trying to look for her without paying the money. After just graduating college, having subscriptions to these things are hard to keep up with. And the premium trials are nice, until your 7 days are up and that $14 is staring you in the face. You know you want to because you have total faith in the app itself in providing you the chance to meet incredible women, but it can be a bit much for those who are wary of their money..Version: 5.77.8
✓ I don’t have a gf yetI’ve been on this app for TOO DAMN LONG and I still don’t have a gf I wanna DIE.Version: 5.67
✓ Free features are lackingI first used Her about 4 years ago. Back then it had a more limited user base but more importantly most of the features were free. I hesitate to complain too much about a dating app specifically for women because this is pretty much the only one but the user experience is quite bad. Over time, more of the features have become only for subscribers. The look of the app has improved recently but I still don’t really get the feed and the ‘communities’. It’s a good idea in practice but it doesn’t seem to be working..Version: 5.60
✓ Not the worst imoSo I have had some fun on this app, but there are definitely some issues. I wish there was some cheaper affordable version of the premium. The starting plan seems to be kinda pricey. Also, the constant notifications for things that no one would want to get are a big problem considering there’s no option to modify the notifications like that (at least not without paying like $25 a week! Or a longer term subscription at a lower weekly rate), and this problem definitely leads to lots of women and enbys just turning off their notifications and therefore not being able to get relevant notifications like whenever you get a match, or a messsage, or something you would actually want to be notified about. This unfortunately leads to a ton of missed opportunities for meeting and interacting with interesting women :(. But I do like that there is no limit on the profile bio. And there are NOT many options for dating apps for queer women, especially women who are interested in women and enbys. I hope i get to find what im looking for.Version: 6.16.13
✓ HER The Lesbian App for Straight People (Not in a great light either)When I first heard about the app it was about a couple years ago. I met a lot of new female friends & dates/potential relationships. I liked how you could see the people who liked you and view their profile. The app still has that feature and it’s still cool. Nowadays, scammers are everywhere online and the developers don’t stick to a good system of weeding out the “sugar mommys”. There is concern for what the app is promoting as it is progresses. As of now, you can add a profile and label yourself ‘straight’ and/or ‘male’. I have had males like me on the app and have tried to report them for being on the ‘lesbian’ app, but I saw that you could render your profile to a straight person. So I guess this app has just downgraded to Tinder to get more money from people. If so please rename the app, there are a lot of other women who have had men get in the messages on this ‘lesbian app’. So my conclusion is that is not a lesbian app (not even close) but you can meet great people here..Version: 6.14.0
✓ Plante tout le tempsHier : Impossible d’ouvrir l’app Ajd: impossible de me connecter.Version: 6.7.6
✓ Inaccurate locationSometimes it’s ok but too much of the time the profiles are from a place 500km away, despite my settings being correct. Sometimes it works fine. Giving up using it..Version: 5.5.3
✓ For lesbians?Says it’s for lesbians but then there is also bi options, he/him options and straight is a option? this is not what it’s advertised as at all, so disappointed.Version: 6.19.14
✓ MAJOR issues with scammers, SWERFS/TERFS and unprovoked account deletionsThis app has so much potential but the moderation team doesn't understand the difference between simply working in the adult industry as MANY of the Marginalized ppl who use this app do and ACTUALLY USING THE PLATFORM TO SOLICIT. I've been reported and removed on this app immediately after encountering transphobes and had my account taken down for "suspicious activity" multiple times for using a vpn. The app doesn't seem to catch the tremendous influx of scammers and yet burdens its user base with constant unchecked account deletions for using the app without actually violating terms of service. I've been deleted twice this week and I've never once solicited, posted my socials to advertise, sent rude messages or unsolicited pictures. I'll log in and randomly my account will just be suspended for no reason. FIX THIS BY SIMPLY MAKING VERIFICATION MANDATORY. MAKING A SAFE PLACE FOR WOMEN MEANS MAKING A SAFE PLACE FOR TRANS WOMEN ANS SWERS. STOP DEPLATFORMING AND FURTHER MARGINALIZING WOMEN JUST FOR LOOKING FOR CONNECTION AND INTIMACY..Version: 6.16.3
✓ Not a fanFor an app literally titled “HER”, I didn’t love that they showed me men (people with he/him pronouns) and wouldn’t let me filter by gender without upgrading.Version: 6.14.7
✓ New userI personally picked it because of the positive reviews. Not really like the other apps which seem to have a lot of people interested in just hooking up. I like some aspects such as the communities but do find some things confusing like how you swipe to like people… as I end up accidentally liking or rejecting people also kind of feel like the results of liking people and people liking you should be part of the free user experience because I’ve had people like me but can’t actually interact with them because by the time I get around to accessing the app it blurs them out unless I’m a premium user. Kind of removes the incentives of using the app because how am I supposed to respond to people who match me if I can’t see half of them?.Version: 6.13.0
✓ It takes forever to load!Even if I paid for her premium it takes forever to load..Version: 5.73.11
✓ Great idea but needs improvementToo many functions require premium. If you cannot use most of the app in the free version how would one know they want to purchase. At the very least sexuality and location filter should be available to free members. Also the spam accounts matching and messaging about being a sugar baby are quite annoying and time consuming to report and block there are so many. The idea is great for the LGBTQ+ community we need this, also to that most of the community especially the trans part of that save so much for transitioning that even $15 a month is steep that is more then a gym membership just for a possibility you might find someone attractive and compatible. I love the idea i think a little more access and why do the amount of swipes matter to whether you have a subscription. Would not take so many swipes if there were any available filters to be used. Such a waste of time to go through and then have to wait so long before even trying to find someone compatible let alone within reasonable distance..Version: 6.15.18
✓ Wish this app was better!As the single lgbtq+ app with more than 20 people on in my city. I would’ve hoped this app was much better. I deleted this app after I found my SO on Hinge. I can’t stand the suggested questions in the messages. I also can’t stand the exploitative premium feature with unnecessary extra perks. Not having a written bio makes it very hard to come across well. Many girls have no pictures which defeats the purpose of the app. Also the recycling of old people I swiped left on is unnecessary. Used this app for 3 years and never enjoyed it. Girls just don’t message back so would appreciate a feature that reminds them to message back..Version: 6.7.21
✓ I’m cool with herHer is an ok app. It is a bit expensive and getting to your matches can be a little tricky without a subscription. My favorite part of the site is that I can use it as a trans woman to meet females and trans. Unfortunately, and this isn’t perhaps the fault of the her app, it can be tough market to meet up much with this app. I have zero problems meeting up with people on taimi and in the days when I had grindr no trouble there either, and I think I have met both more cisgender females and trans on both of those sites, strangely enough. Her’s primary user base isn’t as toxic as some others, but it also isn’t primarily geared to my demographic (although it gestures to being inclusive to a tran like me). Some of the females I have chatted with on her didn’t read my profile or said somewhat prejudicial things, but I’ve never been kicked off the app or anything. I just don’t think a lot of the women on her are looking for a trans woman, and if that’s you I don’t really know what to tell you as far as a solution. I see a lot more trans males on her than females, so I assume they are in a better position. it’s a lot easier to date men as a trans in my experience regardless of what app you use. However, I have had many likes and conversations and a few dates though her, and if you’re looking for your person, maybe you will meet her through this app. It’s definitely worth trying..Version: 6.14.17
✓ Not inclusive to everyoneHad just recently joined the site in the process of still building my profile and matching people and my account was reported right away for no valid reason. I contacted them and they did not help to retrieve my account back..Version: 5.61
✓ Buggy, slow and confusing, but better than mostI’ve been using HER on and off for a couple of years. It is superior than most of the niche apps out there, but doesn’t rise to the level of tinder or bumble as far as how many people are on it or how well it works. It definitely suffers from the scourge of fake profiles that you find almost everywhere. It also seems to have some bugs, a bit of a lag, and I’ve never really been clear on how it’s supposed to work. I have the free version so I shouldn’t be able to see who has given me a like, but I frequently get notifications for exactly that, and the opportunity to match with said people. Unfortunately they are often way far away. Also, a minor thing, but I really hate the way it crops photos. Resultingly, so many of the users have the top of their heads Cut off in their profile pictures. I’ve met some real people, so if you can deal with the fakes and the quirks of the system, it’s worth a shot..Version: 6.14.20
✓ What privacy and support?Stick with tinder folks, at least they respond and assist when you need it. Both my girlfriend and I have had our images used on multiple dating sites without our consent. Tinder have been great, they responded and have been assisting in this complete breach of privacy and illegal activity. The team at HER haven’t responded in weeks, to multiple emails. What an absolute fail of a supposedly “supportive community”. Sort it out HER, you’re aiding this person in undertaking illegal activity..Version: 6.8.2
✓ Absolute rubbishTried to set up my account in 4 different ways but before my profile got uploaded my account went on hold. No support from the support team. This was the most annoying experience..Version: 6.20.8
✓ 😑Lots of scammers claiming they want a sugar baby if you just add them on Snapchat, waaaaay too many notifications.Version: 6.1.35
✓ Difficult log inI just created an account. Didn’t link any social media.... well that was a mistake. I didn’t realise if I logged out the only way back in was through Instagram of Facebook. I tried creating an Instagram account and log in with my phone number and it just created a new account. And for some stupid reason I’m suspended from my account. When all I am trying to do is log in. I already have matches and want to get back to the conversation. The emails are saying you will take three days..... seriously..Version: 5.76.10
✓ Needs workThis app could be great but it has a lot of issues. Some filters should be free (like hinge) I currently can’t filter based on sexuality which leaves me, a lesbian, always seeing men and non-binary people pop up and it’s frustrating when I only want to see other lesbians. I also would prefer to match with someone before seeing they “like” me I get so many likes from people that just aren’t my type. I don’t want to be constantly getting notifications for likes. We also need to be able to set our location rather than using the GPS. Right now if I leave the Cory for a day or go on vacation I can’t keep swiping on people from my city, the location changes as you move around and that’s so unhelpful. I know where I live and I only want to see people from there. We need to be able to turn off the location services and just set a permanent location in settings. This app is so out of date it’s interface looks aged and is hard to use. Needs a cool update like hinge or bumble..Version: 6.10.7
✓ Could Be BetterPricing is a little too steep. Same profiles over being recycled with very minimal swipe allowance. Fake profiles, 16hrs before you can swipe again, doesn't make sense. Really makes the app hard to use. I think listening to the demographics of users and what their needs are will really put this app on a different pedestal for LGBTQ Online Dating..Version: 5.73.11
✓ *WARNING*This app should be taken off of the App Store! This is the biggest scam I’ve come across. You pay a “premium” fee, and there is no background checks on these people to safely know they are really who they say they are! I was “catfished” by these people who I thought had common interests. They start off by telling you what you want to hear, then the sob story starts and how they need money wired, or iTunes gift cards. Or how they need to get home from Afghanistan, but they can’t access their accounts over there! There’s always an excuse they can’t meet you, call or FaceTime. Yes I am one of those IDIOTS that fell for it and I’m out $500 trying to help a “soldier” come home! I am prior military, so I understand wanting to come home. I called her so called unit, and talked to a Major who confirmed this person never existed with their unit. I filed a police report, and the police confirmed this person was not a resident of that state. PLEASE heed my warning, and find a legit dating app that can assure you the people you are talking to are really who they say they are. And NO one should be asking for money no matter what their circumstances are!.Version: 5.31
✓ Locked me out & did not refund meI had a monthly subscription and they locked me out for 11 days. They said it was because they have lots of fake profiles so it happens sometimes. I had to send copy of my passport for them to reinstate. I was locked out for 11 days. I’ve asked them multiple times via email to refund me and they haven’t responded to me. Update: after 3 unanswered emails they responded to my fourth one asking me to contact apple for a refund. No option via apple for refund as purchase was in May 23 (I’ve been emailing HER since then requesting a refund). In summary HER have been really cavalier throughout whole process. I’d avoid, they’re aren’t resolving issues and being fair in the way you would expect a more established company to do..Version: 6.20.7
✓ I’ve had to make more then 1 account (4?)This app is great you get to meet new people and make new friends even find someone you genuinely enjoy spending time with. I’ve met a couple people on this app and they were great. You know what’s also great have the first account I made . The app logged me out . And keeps logging me out . I just made a whole new account today and I just pressed on the notification and it takes me to the main HER page to sign in again but it’s not signing it , it’s having me make a whole new account . It won’t let me log in through Apple it says my account has been blocked . It’s connected to my old number which no longer mine . I made that new account with a different number I just got . I don’t know what to do pictures of me are now on the app and I have no way of taking them down or pleading my case to get me back to my new or old account . I NEED A ACTUAL CUSTOMER SUPPORT !!!.Version: 6.17.4
✓ The BS is getting oldI’m getting really tired of this app. I’ve had this app for 5 years and I’ve only gotten one very toxic relationship out of it. It used to be a mix, but now everyone on the app either doesn’t know what they want or they just want a hookup. It’s become a hookup app rather than a dating app and it’s annoying. I know that’s beyond HER’s control, but I also have some things to say about them too. I have reported this one girl who called me horrible names because she has 15+ profiles made and they still don’t delete them. It’s out of control! Every time I go on the app, I see another one of her excessive number of profiles. They also don’t do anything to get rid of the accounts with no face pictures despite reporting every single one. I still come across them CONSTANTLY. I get being closeted, but this isn’t really an app for the closeted. It’s also unsafe because it could be a straight cis male pretending to be someone in the LGBTQIA+ community. Also, there’s no option to delete your account as it seems because I come across a lot of people with the name “deleted”. Fix these issues and I may consider keeping the app..Version: 6.10.11
✓ Rip Off - DO NOT SUBSCRIBE. THEY WILL STEAL YOUR MONEY.MORE UPDATE: Has anyone else noticed how the most complimentary reviews come up first under the default ‘most relevant’ reviews. You’d think the most recent reviews would be the most relevant but as there are so many bad ones they can’t show that. UPDATE: It would appear that this app not only likes to steal your money but also does not like criticism. I have affectively been banned. I paid for a premium membership only for my membership to disappear altogether. I wrote to the app’s admin who said it was a glitch and that it was now fixed. However, I still couldn’t log in. Next day, decided to buy another premium subscription. Exactly the same thing happened: it worked for a few hours then I couldn’t log back in. So, 2 expensive subscriptions lost in a matter of 36 hours. I have now sent several emails to the admin which have gone unanswered. I have asked for them to fix the problem or refund my 2 subscriptions. Absolute silence from this company. Save your money..Version: 6.1.19
✓ Bummer appIt started out fine but I don’t understand why we get a notification when any old person likes your profile. I don’t have access to the people who are 70 miles away from me! Why was I notified about them? Or about anyone who doesn’t fit into the things I’m looking for? I’ve been messaging with someone (finally a real person!) but I keep getting repeat notifications for messages I’ve already read, and sometimes, when I get a notification for a message I haven’t seen yet, I’ll go to read the message I was notified about and it’s not there. I have to wait for it to come through again before I can see a message that was clearly sent a while ago (sometimes hours?!). And yeah I agree with nearly all the other critiques about this app. Prompts to pay for things that should be free, too many fake accounts, can’t see all the irrelevant notifications even though they’re forced on you, needs a major upgrade in ease of use and let’s be real, aesthetics too. Etc!.Version: 6.13.0
✓ What happened with the new app ?What happened to this app ? The old version was much better. I’m swiping left and 2sec after I have again the 3 or 4 profils I just swiped left. The price are so expensive tho. Anyway. I deleted it..Version: 6.19.16
✓ An ex that I blocked still pops upReally hate how even when you "block" someone (in my case because she's an ex), they still pop up on the "online now and ready to chat". Makes me not even want to look at my chats because it's uncomfortable to see that - I'm sure many other people have the same experience. Realistically it's fine and realistic that she's using the app because so am I but this is not something that needs to be rubbed in our face. It has happened to me TWICE in the last week with the same girl popping up even though I blocked her. People you've blocked should automatically be prevented from appearing in the "online now and ready to chat"..Version: 5.32
✓ SadThe app only takes sign ups through FB and Instagram..Version: 5.54
✓ It WAS a great appI really enjoyed using this recently. I only got it yesterday and I’ve had a good time talking to people since. Unfortunately, I’ve been having this weird bug where the notifications keep popping up to say people have liked me but I can’t open the app past the splash screen. It just says “HER” in the centre of the screen and doesn’t load past that. I’ve turned my phone on and off again thinking it might have been on my end but that didn’t work. I’m considering deleting it and just trying a different app, because the notifications are building up and I’m the kind of person who REALLY needs to clear notifications lol I really have enjoyed using HER. So I hope this gets fixed soon x.Version: 5.77.8
✓ MehThe Facebook dating app is much better in comparison. There is more freedom on Tinder than on here. Useless app in my opinion..Version: 5.73.7
✓ YikesThe ugliest and worst ppl I’ve ever seen online. For freaks only.Version: 6.20.1
✓ Capped likes and length of wait timeI think the app is great and inclusive etc however the number of likes for the day is ridiculously small as well as the length of time between time waiting for them to renew is incredibly long, how is anyone suppose to meet anyone. I have recently moved to London and would also be interested in meeting new friends and this again isn’t possible due to the wait times. I then also think the price of the subscription is so much money, it’s more than all three of my steaming subscriptions, for the sake of trying to meet someone..Version: 6.15.4
✓ Messenger system has errorsThe messenger system often comes up with errors or bugs which are easy enough to cancel or accept but ruins the user experience Very simple concept and otherwise works well Also it tries to show me the communities I can join but if I don’t want to join I can’t seem to access out of the ads taking me there without fully shutting the all down and reopening it With these errors addressed, the app could receive a 5/5 star rating.Version: 5.63
✓ Good appI like the general layout and it’s an alright dating app that allows people in the LGBTQIA+ community to connect with others in the same community, but it’s lacking in one key area. You can see how many people have “liked” you, but aren’t allowed to actually view the list of people, their profiles, or match with them without paying for gold. Moreover, the app only allows you to see around 3-4 of these “likes” a day in your notification tab. While you can still go the organic route and swipe until you find a match, this is time-consuming and is yet another feature that is limited, as you quickly run out of swipes that does not replenish until after a full day has passed. Personally, I am not willing to revisit a dating app every day just to get another shot of maybe finding someone I’m interested in within the restrictive set amount of swipes. This makes the app a less appealing option when compared to competitors..Version: 6.16.18
✓ TERF app TERF team TERF communityPosted a post op chest pic as my profile pic, Im a transman i wanted to let ppl know from my scars since they often flag my account for looking like a cis man. This time my chest pic was community flagged as a nude and enforced by the HER team who deleted my account for being topless. LOL I contacted their support team and they wanted me to remove my male chest pic because of nudity?! Warned me my account will be deleted again if i didnt. So tell me how is this a trans inclusive to have my chest treated as if i had no surgery sounds like some conservative transphobic crap. HER shouldve banned the folks that falsley flagged me since they were creating a non inclusive environment and harrassing a transman…HER claims to be a safe space for trans folks who have transitioned but instead they seem to side with terfs and ban trans users. Read all the negative reviews and judge if u want to support this trash. I joined this app stupidly named HER cause there was one positive review here from a user joey something who says he is a transman who found love etc but now im pretty sure thats a paid review to trans bait. Theyve been trans/queer baiting and causing the community more harm than good. Should be sued. For the devs: The support staff im in contact with is Samantha J.Version: 6.14.12
✓ Fake profiles, lack of app support and full of menI’ve been using this app for years to make friends and meet other queer girlies and it used to be great. However, there must be thousands of fake profiles on this app now, and blatantly obvious ones too. However it seems to just get worse and the support don’t do anything to help. I’ve counted and I’ve just swiped through and found and reported around 30 fake profiles within 5 minutes. I’ve even seen my own pictures being used and messaged support with no reply. On the app recently I’ve noticed a tonne of straight men on there looking for hookups and again, nothing is done about it. I personally believe that every profile should be verified within a certain time limit of creating a profile if they want to use the app or you shouldn’t have to pay premium to change the filter to ‘verified accounts only’. It’s supposed to be a safe space for LGBTQ+ members but the support don’t do anything to make sure it’s a safe space. Overall, might be good to meet new people. But I advise to move over to another platform after, if possible..Version: 6.19.18
✓ Can’t unmatch and keeps showing the same peopleThere’s this really annoying bug in this app where they keep showing people you’ve already swiped left on. OVER AND OVER AGAIN. Seriously, I’ve recently moved to a different country and I’m still seeing those same people 5500+ kilometers away from me. It’s the most irritating thing, particularly because it means you need to swipe through the barrage of all of them before getting to new people. On top of that, you can’t even unmatch someone if you lose interest in them. Please rectify these issues..Version: 5.59
✓ Terrible.Terrible app, having used other apps like Hinge for this is a shambles in comparison. I will never pay for a premium subscription for a dating app, the paywalls blocking the most basic features are infuriating. The 24 hour timer and incredibly limited access to review likes, when getting over 40+ likes a day how the hell am I meant to get through them and match with people which is the entire point of this app. The only USP this app has going for it is the WLW focus, I will persevere for now but after two days I am already frustrated with the UX to the point where I’m considering deleting the app..Version: 6.16.12
✓ HER dating appFree app to a degree that is easy to navigate and filters set criteria well. To look at likes you need the premium membership, I feel as if little comes with the lower gold membership and in my opinion would be better if there was one set membership that have you access to everything. Overall a good app but I think there can be improvements made that would entice more people to join than only using the free features and waiting until the next day to use them again..Version: 6.17.1
✓ Different To The RestHi, Loving this app so far. Whats even better is it has forums where you can discuss almost anything and interact with others. Best app so far for finding and making new friends and dating. The other plus side is once you've added someone as a friend, you can talk to them, but only if they accept you, which is a good aspect. Keep up the good work HER Downside, app takes too long to upload, hence the three stars. I can only use one keypad (which I dislike using), can't send emojis, and it won't let me change the size of my keyboard, and it's still very Slow to load, even with my latest iPhone model 😔.Version: 6.15.14
✓ THIS APP SUCKSFor more than a week my account has been put on a “temporary” break due to breaking guidelines. I’ve had the same account and same everything for over a year and nothing happened. But when I reached out for support and that’s what the pop up message told me, it said the turnaround day is 3-5 business days. It’s been nearly 10 days and nobody has gotten back to me! I want to get back on the app but can’t due it being on a hold! This app is crap honestly, sucks..Version: 6.16.10
✓ Won’t let me log inI’ve had the app for a while and with the last update it won’t let me sign in.Version: 5.68
✓ HomophobicThis app is homophobic af because it will ban lesbians for stating their same-sex attracted boundaries. Deleted it after the latest update..Version: 6.15.0
✓ Maybe notPaid for the app, got a bill, have it in my subscriptions but of course the app doesn’t work properly and won’t give me any paid privileges. What an absolute waste of money..Version: 6.20.1
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